TALKING TO YOUR LANDLORD

Speaking to your landlord early can often prevent problems from getting worse.

Talking to your landlord can feel difficult, especially if you are worried about your housing situation.
However, early communication can often prevent problems from becoming more serious.

As a carer, you may already have many responsibilities, so it can feel hard to start these conversations.
Even so, clear and calm communication can help you explain your situation and find solutions.

This section offers simple guidance to help you feel more confident when speaking to your landlord.

Tips for early communication

Tips for early communication

It is often best to speak to your landlord as soon as a problem begins.  This could include rent concerns, repairs, or changes in your circumstances.

When you contact your landlord, try to:

  • Be clear about the issue and how it affects you
  • Keep a record of messages, emails, or letters
  • Stay calm and polite, even if you feel frustrated
  • Explain any caring responsibilities that may impact your situation

If you feel unsure, you can ask someone to support you with the conversation.  This could be a friend, support worker, or advice service.

Requesting repairs or support

If something in your home needs repairing, it is important to tell your landlord as soon as possible.  Landlords are responsible for keeping your home safe and in good condition.

When requesting repairs:

  • Report the issue clearly and include photos if possible
  • Keep copies of all communication
  • Follow up if you do not receive a response

You can also explain if the issue affects your caring role.  For example, repairs may be urgent if they impact the person you support.

If your landlord does not act, you may be able to contact your local council for help.

Requesting repairs or support 

Negotiating rent issues

Negotiating rent issues

If you are struggling to pay your rent, it is important to act early.

Speaking to your landlord may help you find a solution before the situation becomes more serious.

You could:

  • Explain your situation honestly and early
  • Ask about a payment plan or temporary reduction
  • Check if you are entitled to benefits or financial support

As a Carer, your income or circumstances may change over time.  Sharing this information can help your landlord understand your situation.

Getting advice before speaking to your landlord can also be helpful.

Planning what to say

It can help to plan what you want to say before contacting your landlord.  This can make the conversation feel more manageable and less stressful.

You may want to:

  • Write down the key points you want to raise
  • Think about what outcome you are hoping for
  • Keep your message clear and focused

You can choose to contact your landlord by phone, email, or letter.  Written communication can be helpful as it creates a clear record.

If you need extra support, you can ask an advice service to help you prepare.

Planning what to say

When to get further help

When to get further help

If communication with your landlord is not working, it is important to seek advice.
Getting support early can help protect your housing situation.

You may want to contact:

  • Citizens Advice
  • Shelter
  • Your local council housing team

They can help you understand your rights and what steps to take next.

Understanding the facts can help you take action sooner and access the right support.  It can also help you support someone else who may be struggling with housing issues.

If you are unsure about your situation, it is always best to seek advice early.  Getting help sooner can prevent problems from becoming more serious.  The links on this page are for guidance only.  Please complete your own research.

Carers’ Support Service is here to make sure unpaid carers are seen, supported and never left to struggle alone.

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